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Zoom that one time I spent $30 by myself at Taco Bell

that one time I spent $30 by myself at Taco Bell

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Zoom live in the sunshine, swim the sea, drink the wild air.

live in the sunshine, swim the sea, drink the wild air.

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My mother once told me that trauma is like Lord of the Rings. You go through this crazy, life-altering thing that almost kills you (like say having to drop the one ring into Mount Doom), and that thing by definition cannot possibly be understood by someone who hasn’t gone through it. They can sympathize sure, but they’ll never really know, and more than likely they’ll expect you to move on from the thing fairly quickly. And they can’t be blamed, people are just like that, but that’s not how it works.

Some lucky people are like Sam. They can go straight home, get married, have a whole bunch of curly headed Hobbit babies and pick up their gardening right where they left off, content to forget the whole thing and live out their days in peace. Lots of people however, are like Frodo, and they don’t come home the same person they were when they left, and everything is more horrible and more hard then it ever was before. The old wounds sting and the ghost of the weight of the one ring still weighs heavy on their minds, and they don’t fit in at home anymore, so they get on boats go sailing away to the Undying West to look for the sort of peace that can only come from within. Frodos can’t cope, and most of us are Frodos when we start out.

But if we move past the urge to hide or lash out, my mother always told me, we can become Pippin and Merry. They never ignored what had happened to them, but they were malleable and receptive to change. They became civic leaders and great storytellers; they were able to turn all that fear and anger and grief into narratives that others could delight in and learn from, and they used the skills they had learned in battle to protect their homeland. They were fortified by what had happened to them, they wore it like armor and used it to their advantage.

It is our trauma that turns us into guardians, my mother told me, it is suffering that strengthens our skin and softens our hearts, and if we learn to live with the ghosts of what had been done to us, we just may be able to save others from the same fate.

— S.T.Gibson

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yellow & dusty.

maybe with a few dog eared pages.

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Artist: Bright Eyes
Song: First Day Of My Life
Album: I'm Wide Awake, It's Morning
Plays: 41,501
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Sometimes you meet a person and you just click—you’re comfortable with them, like you’ve known them your whole life, and you don’t have to pretend to be anyone or anything.

— Alexandra Ardonetto

rarely.

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"Word Crimes” covers every writerly pet peeve you can imagine.

Weird Al is a genius. He took a horribly sexist song and made it into a grammar nerd anthem.

This is magnificent.

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Zoom If you go home with somebody, and they don’t have books, don’t fuck ‘em

If you go home with somebody, and they don’t have books, don’t fuck ‘em

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You can be lonely even when you are loved by many people, since you are still not anybody’s one and only.

— Anne Frank

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11 Things You Should Know About Your Musician Friends

without music, life would be a mistake.

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